All GROWTH Posts

ames Dobson may be dead, his theology is not. His words still echo in evangelical households. His books still sit on dusty shelves, ready to be pulled down when a parent is told their child is “defiant.” His legacy continues to harm.

Many Christians aren’t engaging with the world as it is—they’re escaping it. Their nervous systems are dysregulated by the chaos of reality

We don't need to be divine, chosen or royal to matter. To be human is enough. That truth is the beginning of real freedom.

I bore their hymns like skin, soft-spoken, sanctified, a fragile sun ordained to burn, but never question why.

Deconstruction is the art of precision— a methodical unraveling, as if faith were a theorem to be tested, hypothesis by hypothesis, until...

I meant to bring light with a flick of the match, but the curtains caught flame, and the house turned to ash. I meant to soothe storms...

They won’t all follow— not into the wilderness. Not when your feet step past the steeple’s shadow and into the burning questions that...

In the U.S., where capitalism touches every aspect of life, spirituality is no exception.

You are never enough—but you could be, if you just buy the next level. The real freedom? Realizing you don’t need a path at all.

I have worn the masks you needed, softened edges to fit your palms, shrunk myself into the shape of what made you comfortable. I have...

Throughout my journey of deconstruction, I’ve encountered a common thread among those leaving Christianity: the realization that the God...

This relentless “us versus them” mentality is a trap. It’s a convenient excuse to avoid accountability.

The flock huddles close, bleating warnings of shadows stretching long— a whispered fear of jagged teeth, the lurking hunger in the dark....

Our emotional regulation is our own responsibility. The moment we fully embrace that, we reclaim a level of sovereignty.

She came as the moon rises, slow and certain, casting silver across his barren sands. Her steps left whispers in the dust, soft echoes of...

I saw the future stretched out before me, and I knew—if I stayed, my son would grow up to be just like his father.

If I could have a conversation with Thomas Paine, I imagine it would be a spirited one—filled with shared critiques of religious...

A powerful reflection on religious indoctrination, fear, and control—challenging faith built on fear and embracing love instead.

Evangelicals use “God is in control” to justify inaction, ignoring injustice while waiting for divine rescue. No god is coming—we must save

True freedom begins where blind faith ends. Accountability isn’t a burden—it’s the power to own your choices and grow through them.