Deconstruction & Secular Humanism

ames Dobson may be dead, his theology is not. His words still echo in evangelical households. His books still sit on dusty shelves, ready to be pulled down when a parent is told their child is “defiant.” His legacy continues to harm.

Many Christians aren’t engaging with the world as it is—they’re escaping it. Their nervous systems are dysregulated by the chaos of reality

We don't need to be divine, chosen or royal to matter. To be human is enough. That truth is the beginning of real freedom.

I bore their hymns like skin, soft-spoken, sanctified, a fragile sun ordained to burn, but never question why.

Deconstruction is the art of precision— a methodical unraveling, as if faith were a theorem to be tested, hypothesis by hypothesis, until...

In the U.S., where capitalism touches every aspect of life, spirituality is no exception.

You are never enough—but you could be, if you just buy the next level. The real freedom? Realizing you don’t need a path at all.

Throughout my journey of deconstruction, I’ve encountered a common thread among those leaving Christianity: the realization that the God...

This relentless “us versus them” mentality is a trap. It’s a convenient excuse to avoid accountability.

Our emotional regulation is our own responsibility. The moment we fully embrace that, we reclaim a level of sovereignty.

I saw the future stretched out before me, and I knew—if I stayed, my son would grow up to be just like his father.

If I could have a conversation with Thomas Paine, I imagine it would be a spirited one—filled with shared critiques of religious...

Evangelicals use “God is in control” to justify inaction, ignoring injustice while waiting for divine rescue. No god is coming—we must save

“The snake wasn’t the villain—it was the truth-teller, the catalyst for humanity’s awakening.”

Coates’ words in Between the World and Me expose systemic truths, challenging us to face discomfort, unlearn myths, and pursue justice with

Love isn’t passive; it’s about seeing fully and acting justly, no matter how uncomfortable the truth may be.

This post is for every Southern white woman who has inherited the glitter but is ready to embrace the grit. Let’s do better—together.

“This is for those untangling the threads of faith, searching for truth beyond tradition. For those who once found meaning in the pews...

One of the most striking revelations in this journey is the glaring absence of a divine mother figure in Abrahamic religions.

Belief is the most powerful force in the world. It shapes how we see reality, how we act, and even how we justify the outcomes of our...